Q: What you wrote about meaning has helped me break through a long standing despair and so much crap fell away with that, thank you! I feel like I'm seeing clearly for first time.

Things dissolve more quickly when I do nothing, just watch. Why is it so hard to sit still?

A: First, a huge kudos. The discovery you’re describing here of attention without participation is one of the most important tools available in this process. In fact, for much of it, this is the only one. You’d do well to cultivate it because it can serve you well where you’re headed.

When Deconstruction deepens, things can move quickly. Identities, assu…